If you’re a cat person, chances are, you share your life with more than one cat. Despite the common misconception that cats are loners, cats often do well in multicat households. Introductions might not always be easy, but with time, many cats can learn to cohabitate just fine with other cats. If your cat is an only cat, you may have wondered to yourself, “Does my cat need a friend?” The answer isn’t simple, and there are a few key factors to consider before you welcome another cat into your—and your resident cat’s—life.
Put yourself in your cat’s shoes. (Okay, paws!)
Cats that live solo don’t typically get to see other cats. And because of this, if your cat were to see another cat enter their home, it would do more than ruffle their feathers. When a cat becomes threatened—which isn’t hard to do—they can react quickly. A neutered or spayed cat will be less territorial, but that doesn’t mean their instincts won’t kick in should they have another cat enter the home. When introducing a new cat to your resident cat, especially a kitten, to an adult cat, practice precaution and extreme patience. Do not rush the introductions. This can only worsen things and prolong a hopefully harmonious household for all parties involved.
Your cat is sensitive, and if you bring another cat into their life because it’s something you want to do that you think they will like, well, think again. Cats can protest this new addition because their feelings are instantly hurt, and they aren’t in control of this strange change. There is a theory about cats becoming comfortable in their new homes, it’s the 3-3-3 rule. This rule means “that you can gauge the time it might take for your cat to fully acclimate to his home in threes: three days, three weeks, and three months.” Now, add even more time for a cat that is being forced to live with an unfamiliar feline.
If you know your cat’s history, consider it thoroughly.
Most of us have adopted cats from animal shelters, and we are all well aware of the signs placed outside of cages. With that being said, there are many times when cats are surrendered to shelters, and to be adopted out, it’s required that they be placed as the only cat in their new household. This happens for a few reasons, but it boils down to the fact that some cats do not like other cats. And this is true for both male and female cats. It’s also been suggested that two unrelated male or two unrelated female cats can have issues getting along. We cannot change how our cats feel about other cats, and if your cat has already been through enough in their life, honor them by respecting their wishes of being the only cat in the home.
If you’re considering a dog friend for your cat, carefully think it through
Dogs and cats amaze us all the time with the strong bonds they can develop with one another. It’s heartwarming to see, and it shows us that sometimes, we can set aside our differences and work things out. Even though we know that dogs and cats can become two peas in a pod, it’s crucial to consider the repercussions of bringing a dog into your life if you have a cat at home. Does my cat need a dog friend? Well, maybe. The only downside is that your cat can’t express its wants and feelings to you before it’s too late and a dog is in its home.
Even when you adopt a dog, there will be some breed speculation. Think of the dog’s breed and how that dog would fare in the presence of a cat (or even cats). If you choose the purebred route, consider the dog’s breed and how they would do with a cat. Some dog breeds naturally love to chase cats or are known for their high prey drive, so these might not be the ideal dog breed choices if you’re looking for a friend for your cat. If you like toy breeds, remember that your cat will be much larger and likely stronger, and this can make for a painful scenario should the new tiny dog work the cat’s nerves.
Does my cat need a friend? If you think you should get a second cat, remember, your cat already has you!
Sometimes, adding a second cat to your home just makes sense. For example, when a cat shows up at your door or in your life, you know it was put there for a reason. These are not common occurrences, but it’s hard for this serendipitous feline not to pull at your heartstrings.
So, let’s say that you want a second cat, and you think that perhaps your cat needs a friend. Well, if your cat is young, still quite playful, and easy-going by nature, this is something to consider. Your cat will need time to adjust to the new cat, but getting your active cat a friend might actually be a great idea! Is your cat calm, attentive, loving, and always right by your side? Well, then, your cat doesn’t really need a feline friend. Why? Because they’ve already chosen you as their best friend. Consider yourself purrfectly lucky.
